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How On Another Note: Making Music at Head Start Was Written and Published

By Leah Wells

After my first book, Games That Sing, was published in 2011, I began envisioning a longer memoir about teaching music. It was difficult—I’d say impossible—to find time to organize my many notes, to comb through the stray papers and scribbles I’d deposited into my son’s old Spiderman backpack for over a year.

My sister, Naomi Rosenblatt, who worked in book publishing for twenty-five years and now owns an indie press, Heliotrope Books, suggested that we go on a retreat. “The only way we’ll organize this material,” she declared, “is away from New York and the distraction of our lives.” Ironically, I had to escape daily life in order to write about it.

We ended up in the Bahamas for a week with two novelists, Richard Bausch and Lisa Cupolo, and three other writers. When not in the workshop, we transposed my notes into Word and Naomi created an outline for the book. I felt too close to the material, and probably could not have done so myself. Lisa Cupolo, formerly a publicist at HarperCollins in Canada, helped edit my introduction and first chapter. She and her husband Richard, who conducted the workshops, greatly encouraged my project and style.

Since my pitch was nonfiction, I did not need a finished manuscript for agents or publishers: only the outline, and a sample chapter or two. Back in New York, Naomi pitched the book to a couple of agents, to no avail. They claimed they didn’t “know how to sell” my manuscript.

“I thought that was their specialty,” Naomi fumed, and submitted my proposal to a medium-sized press. “This is the best narrative nonfiction I’ve read in years,” the senior editor proclaimed. “I would do it in a heartbeat. But I don’t like children.”

Naomi then offered it to an editor who had recently given birth and worked at one of the conglomerates. We hoped she’d be fond of children. Again I heard how terrific my writing was, but this publishing professional announced that she did not know “how to sell” such a book. It seemed that children, once a mainstay of life and society, had become a niche market. It seemed that a trade book need not be well-written, but only easy to sell, and preferably about a topic the senior editors fancied.

By 2013 we faced a zero-sum game: Top professionals were thumbing up my writing, but none wished to publish it. I wondered what would make a book more sellable. If I added something practical, like the activities in Games That Sing, then maybe parents, teachers, and caregivers—that obscure, “niche audience”—might buy my book with this added value.

“Like Leda’s book,” I told Naomi, referring to local food author Leda Meredith’s debut memoir with recipes that Naomi had published in 2008. “I’ll do a memoir with classroom exercises,” I said, and Naomi replied, “I’ll publish it.”

Then the hard work began. For the next eighteen months, I wrote. Naomi advised me to summarize and skip forward in time, but that is not my method. I had to get it all out, using my scribbled notes as prompts, recalling every detail I could and committing it to the page. I knew this intensive stream of consciousness would not necessarily comprise the final book. But I had to write the first draft in my own way, or the flow would stop. Naomi and I agreed that I would “write long,” and then I’d entrust her to edit liberally.

“You’ll have to part with darlings,” she warned. “I’m ready,” I told her. I wanted the book to appeal to readers. I would do what it took.

By the time I finished, it was summer of 2015, and my sister was nervous. She knew how long and hard I’d worked on the manuscript. “In subtracting,” she said, “I will aim to enrich.” It seemed counterintuitive, but as Mark Twain said: “A successful book is not made of what is in it, but what is left out of it.” As it happened, my sister trimmed my 400 pages down to 240. Yet somehow, the residue of what she’d excised still shines through. That is a kind of miracle and now we sometimes laugh, and say to each other: “We did it.”

We didn’t do it alone, though. My wonderful publicist, Sue Havlish, suggested changes as On Another Note: Making Music at Head Start was being developed. I showed the manuscript to colleagues in education and family services, and to friends. Some critiques were harsh: “too much about the Bronx,” “too much slang,” “don’t know what this is–an educational primer or a memoir.” To the last question, Naomi answered, “It’s both, a cross-genre book.” Mixed category books are a specialty of her press, Heliotrope Books.

Last but not least, we called upon my father, “Dr. Grammar,” Professor Emeritus from SUNY Albany. He devoted a week to refining my grammar and usage. My mother also read it, and she was easier on my style. A few saints proofread, and Naomi made sense of their respective input.

Now that it’s published, we’re getting kudos from some tough customers. Discerning friends rave, “I’m devouring it.” Strangers say they feel like they “know” me. A man I’ve never met wrote a stunning piece in Neworld Review. Our cousin who plays oboe in national symphony orchestras wrote, “The ‘ingot of cheese!’ The ‘intoning of the theme from 2001 Space Odyssey every time … the refrigerator door is opened!’ For this and a hundred other phrases, I love this book!”

The hard work has paid off.

I am finally ready to discard all the notes from that Spiderman backpack my twenty-year-old son hasn’t used in years.

Leah Wells memoir authorLeah Wells is a writer, teacher, performing musician and singer. For over 20 years she has studied and taught stringed instrument techniques, from flamenco guitar to bluegrass banjo. Leah performs regularly in the tri-state area, with The Linemen and other folk ensembles. In 2011, she performed at Lincoln Center’s Library for The Performing Arts in a special tribute to Irish music.

Leah has taught music and movement to preschoolers in Head Start Centers, YMCAs, summer camps and private schools since 2003. The mother of two sons, Haskell and Simon, she brings her understanding of children and empathy with music educators to her original classroom material.

Her memoir On Another Note: Making Music at Head Start was published earlier this month and is available through Amazon.

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